Calm First, Learn Later:
A Regulation Roadmap for Parents
Charlie Del Santo, MA
Monday
November 10, 2025
10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Wilton Library
137 Old Ridgefield Road
Wilton
For parents of children ages four through twelve (elementary and middle school)
When kids are dysregulated—whether they’re melting down, shutting down, or just plain stuck—it can feel impossible to reach them, let alone help them learn. The truth is, kids can’t access logic, focus, or problem-solving until they feel safe and regulated.
In this engaging and practical talk, special education teacher Charlie Del Santo will discuss simple, proven strategies to support children through stress, shutdowns and big emotions, so they can return to a place where listening, learning and connection are possible.
Participants will leave this presentation with:
— A clear understanding of what’s happening in your child’s brain and body during moments of dysregulation.
— Everyday tools to use before, during and after dysregulation to help your child reset.
— A ready-to-use “parent toolbox” of calming phrases, routines and supports for home.
View the Presentation Slides
Other Materials: Parent Toolbox and
Regulation Roadmap
More About Charlie Del Santo
Presented by SPED*NET in partnership with
Wilton Library, Wilton Public Schools,
Wilton Youth Council, Easton CT SEPTA
and Newtown Sped PTA
SPED*NET does not provide medical or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The material in this presentation is provided for educational purposes only.
Calm First, Learn Later: A Regulation Roadmap for Parents
Charlie Del Santo, MA
Monday
November 10, 2025
10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Wilton Library
137 Old Ridgefield Road
Wilton
For parents of children ages four through twelve (elementary and middle school)
When kids are dysregulated—whether they’re melting down, shutting down, or just plain stuck—it can feel impossible to reach them, let alone help them learn. The truth is, kids can’t access logic, focus, or problem-solving until they feel safe and regulated.
In this engaging and practical talk, special education teacher Charlie Del Santo will discuss simple, proven strategies to support children through stress, shutdowns and big emotions, so they can return to a place where listening, learning and connection are possible.
Participants will leave this presentation with:
— A clear understanding of what’s happening in your child’s brain and body during moments of dysregulation.
— Everyday tools to use before, during and after dysregulation to help your child reset.
— A ready-to-use “parent toolbox” of calming phrases, routines and supports for home.
View the Presentation Slides
Other Materials: Parent Toolbox and
Regulation Roadmap
More About Charlie Del Santo
Presented by SPED*NET in partnership with
Wilton Library, Wilton Public Schools, Wilton Youth Council, Easton CT SEPTA and Newtown Sped PTA
SPED*NET does not provide medical or psychological
advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The material in this
presentation is provided for educational purposes only.
Calm First, Learn Later:
A Regulation Roadmap
for Parents
Charlie Del Santo, MA
Monday
November 10, 2025
10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
Wilton Library
137 Old Ridgefield Road
Wilton
For parents of children ages four through twelve (elementary and middle school)
When kids are dysregulated—whether they’re melting down, shutting down, or just plain stuck—it can feel impossible to reach them, let alone help them learn. The truth is, kids can’t access logic, focus, or problem-solving until they feel safe and regulated.
In this engaging and practical talk, special education teacher Charlie Del Santo will discuss simple, proven strategies to support children through stress, shutdowns and big emotions, so they can return to a place where listening, learning and connection are possible.
Participants will leave this presentation with:
— A clear understanding of what’s happening in your child’s brain and body during moments of dysregulation.
— Everyday tools to use before, during and after dysregulation to help your child reset.
— A ready-to-use “parent toolbox” of calming phrases, routines and supports for home.
View the Presentation Slides
Other Materials: Parent Toolbox and
Regulation Roadmap
More About Charlie Del Santo
Presented by SPED*NET in partnership with
Wilton Library, Wilton Public Schools,
Wilton Youth Council, Easton CT SEPTA
and Newtown Sped PTA
SPED*NET does not provide medical or psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The material in this presentation is provided for educational purposes only.